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Poster: Dancinbears Date: Jan 3, 2007 9:49pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: :(

Dire, I cannot speak for orchidoctor, because I don't know what was said between anyone. so many posts were deleted, so I don't even know what happened really. ??

All I know is I CONSTANTLY feel like I'm constantly the beginning of (I'm quoting Ssag now...) "DRAMA". why is it that this happens that I have to defend what I say? I didn't know it was a hoax! But what gets me really upset is that I would think (by now!) you guys would have read it and known right away that I didn't know it was a hoax! hasn't everybody figured me out by now?? I joke around, but not about something this serious.

I have begun to care about so many of you, on and off the forum, and I guess I become like a 'big sister' and become disappointed in you when I was hoping for more. And then you go and act your same old way and it was me who should have known better.

I guess all I had wanted to say, and ask, was WHY (???) everyone acts the way that they do. If we didn't SO MANY of those lurkers would come and participate. We're missing out on meeting them!! and trust me, there are A LOT!! Look how many people have read this thread alone, but look how many responded...
~dancin'

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Jan 3, 2007 10:06pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: :(

"and I guess I become like a 'big sister' and become disappointed in you when I was hoping for more. And then you go and act your same old way and it was me who should have known better."

Sorry to dissappoint you my friend, i guess i am what i am, and am not what you want me to be. I really don't know what to say to that except to say I am sorry Gina.

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Poster: Dancinbears Date: Jan 3, 2007 10:11pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: :(

no, I didn't mean just you Dire, not at all... I meant you as in the 'whole forum'. I thought everybody was making such progress (is that a good word to use) in sharing more about themselves and talking like a 'community'. but then everybody can turn on a dime, and it's that part that I forgot. That's the part I was disappointed in. I just wish it wasn't like that.

You (and max, and Jody and Cush...ok, the list is long, but you get the idea)...YOU are why I keep coming back here. You are the people I said I care about. :)

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Jan 3, 2007 10:20pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: :(

hey my friend, everyone can turn on a dime sometimes on here at times. that is because each of us regulars are human, have real emotions, some are hotheads, and some are very opinioniated.

don't take that as a negative my dear friend. This is a great forum where we sometimes have nasty exchanges and heated debates. Yes, it may get out of hand at times, but there are at least a dozen or so of us that are really good people and have really good souls and heart (i think you know which ones of those we are). sometimes our jokes may go over the top and other posters dont know how to take it - i hope you do knowing the exchanges that are occuring.

i know you know the dozen of us or so who are tight here and would never be offensive to you (barring in jest) - you are included in that dozen i hope you know. If things get slippery at times, just roll with it, and things get smoothed out very quickly.

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Poster: Ssag Date: Jan 3, 2007 10:15pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: :(

I dont think you are a source of drama and not in this case or ever from what I see. Thats for sure. I think it boiled into drama which was sad and then it wouldnt die down which then it started to suck. Then when it sucked I became the loud mouth that I am. Most of the drama to me came from that guy who shamed and shook his finger at some people around here. I just didnt like it and that had nothing to do with you. Everybody screws up, I am a shiny example of foot in mouth disiese but what I dont like it moralists, well intended or not, it wasnt the right thing to do. He basically was shaking his finger at people who were already feeling bad about the whole thing. Okay enough I am done I just want you to know I dont think you are drama :)

BTW I quoted someone else first with the drama thing........hehehe Oh and I am not talking about the good doctor either.

This post was modified by Ssag on 2007-01-04 06:15:39